Monday, January 9, 2012

half hour drawings and a big day for my little boy

We've been back from our holiday in Melbourne for a week or so now and have settled in to a nice home groove of quiet sunny days, picnics, scooter rides, home made ice cream, drawing, listening to some new music, building train tracks, making cubbies and constructing things with sticks and bricks in the back yard. 


The kids have been drawing side-by-side.



This has been a fantastic strategy to get Oesch mark-making a little more. He's really much more attracted to constructing things with blocks than putting crayon to the page, but when he does draw, those vigorous, colour-drenched pictures make this mama ridiculously happy :)



And Doots has been drawing in a regular session we have dubbed the half hour drawing challenge.

I'd noticed that after kinder finished for the year Doots' urge to draw dropped off quite a bit. Actually I noticed the same thing last summer, and perhaps there's a seasonal element at play. It makes sense that when the weather's warm, we're drawn to outdoor elements and materials. Paper and pencil is overshadowed for a while by the appeal of water, sunshine, leaves, sand, pebbles, flowers.

Grass, inspired by The Story of the Root Children by Sybille von Olfers
So at those times when she'd usually draw, like in the afternoon or while waiting for dinner, I thought I'd give her a random topic to give her a little focus. Just a little nudge for her imagination.

A ladybird family are going shopping

As a designer, I often relied on the constraints inherent within a brief to initiate form, so it was interesting to see Doots' eyes light up when I named the topic, and then watch her set to work, busily drawing and telling elaborate stories to go with each picture. 



Santa in his sleigh on Christmas eve
We're keeping a dedicated visual diary for these drawings. None of the pictures are really finished, but she hasn't felt the urge to go back and finish the colouring once the half an hour has expired. It's like, they are what the are, and she's quite proud of each one.

Dog riding a bike
 When she looks through them and reflects on each one, the elaborate stories are retold and the smile on her face speaks of the pleasure of the process of making each picture/story. Beautiful.



 Here's a sketch I did of her, while she sat opposite me drawing her Santa picture and listening to music with her headphones. Making time for drawing is always on my list of things to do, but I never quite get around to it. So I'm grabbing this opportunity to draw together with my kids and really enjoying it.


My little brother on his first day of pre-school
 And today, we took some pastels to a cafe and drew pictures of our not-quite 3 year old Oesch at his first morning of pre-school. We talked about what he'd be playing with and the new friends he'd be making.  

My big boy playing with lego at pre-school

I do have a niggling problem though. Today, drawing our Oesch pictures at the cafe, Doots stated "yours is better than mine, Mum". 

Ouch. We talked about how they are both good, but different, how it's not a competition, I explained that I've had a bit more time to practice than she has, that what is important is that we do our best...

But I'm thinking in future we'll stick to our own ideas rather than drawing the same thing.


And as for the little guy and his first time away from the family, I was so anxious that I barely slept last night, but I really shouldn't have worried. 

We kissed him and said goodbye - he cuddled us and said goodbye. Doots and I picked him up after an hour and he was sitting with some other little boys eating morning tea. It was as though he'd always been there.

The educator described him as very mature, confident and enthusiastic. He loved it, and can't wait to go back. 


Oh, sweet, sweet relief.

Happy 2012 to you and your loved ones. Wishing you some joyful new beginnings too!

5/3/13 - Hi everyone, thanks all for your thoughtful comments, and for checking in on me. I'm not blogging anymore. I really miss aspects of blogging - the community of my blog (that's you!) and the time for reflection that putting a post together offered. Maybe I'll come back to it one day. I'm closing comments on this post in an attempt to stop the daily, annoying spam comments landing in my inbox.

s Sarah


14 comments:

  1. Big day indeed, but it sounds like it was a success. I related to the part where Oesch compared her drawing to yours. I have similar conversations with my nine year old when she wants me to help her with her piano playing and she gets frustrated that I can show her when she's been trying for ages to master something. All parts of the wonderful challenges of parenting I suppose? Your idea of different topics sounds like a good plan.
    x

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  2. I love that drawing idea. The Munchkin finishes drawing when she is happy too, when they're done they're done :) Thanks for the prompt about the visual journal thing too, will set that up tomorrow, it is nice to have them all together and see the progression, just something I haven't got around to doing.
    So great Oesch is settling in too :) and that hair! Gorgeous x

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  3. Hello from Sydney Sarah!!

    I just nodded my head through your entire post!!

    Drawing, comparing by little ones, pre-school...it's all good and it's all a new part of life in our little families to deal with isn't it.

    Children don't seem to realise that we adults would love to draw with such abandon- a place where we never felt the urge/need to finish the piece...to finish the colouring...to get the perspective right...

    I would love to still have that passion for the sake of capturing *the dog on the bike* that both our children have...it's gone all to soon for me!

    Pre-school- he looks delighted..ready...bigger -but he's always going to be your little lovely one...

    Melissa xx

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  4. dog on a bike - love it
    all gorgeous but this one is the stand out for me

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  6. Love the idea of your drawing time but have the same problem here with Immy and comparing. I tend to channel my inner Kandinsky and stick to shapes and colours and patterns :) There is an idea over at Playopedia today called 'Roll the Dice and Draw' that made me think of your selection of drawing ideas - http://childhood101.com/playopedia/

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  7. Oh Sarah! I'm so delighted that Oesch revelled in his first time away from you. See what a wonderful job of mothering you've done to raise such a happy, well-adjusted little chap? Full plaudits to you, Lovely. J x

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  8. Lovely, lovely post Sarah
    The idea of half hour drawing time is very appealing - and I think keeping a visual diary is a fab idea

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  9. I am really enjoying reading your blog!! I recieved the Leibster Bolg Award and wanted to pass it on to you.
    If you wish to accept this award (I hope you do!!!!) here is the link to my post. http://amy-shemakesthree.blogspot.com.au/2012/04/thanks.html where you can find out all about it and what you need to do.

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  11. Hi Sarah

    I always pop in here for a quick squizz to see if you are about. Im guessing real life got real busy for you preventing you participating in the blog world. I hope you and your gorgeous family are well.

    Hopefully we will see you one day soon back here posting.

    Helen :)

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    1. I second that, objects of whimsy!

      I miss your lovely little blog, Sarah. With two young children of similar ages I found your creative ideas and your sweet reflexions on family life inspiring to read. I follow a few blogs but yours was one of my very favourites and I do miss it. I figured you decided to have a de-tox from screen time for a while and if so, good on you!

      Hope life is good with you & your little ones.

      Maggie

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  12. Have said it before ( I think even on this post whoops) but I really miss your blog.
    Hope you and yours are all safe and well in Tassie. Thinking of everyone down that way and hope all ok.

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